15 августа 2020, Nina Shabanova
4 powerful tips to help you love oral sex
In this article, we’ll talk about how you can make a blowjob pleasant for all participants in the process.
Let’s make a reservation right away: if you don’t like blowjob, then you shouldn’t force yourself. Blowjob is just a bonus to sex, a nice option, although for some reason it is considered a mandatory item on the erotic program.
In general, blowjob is a great way to diversify caresses, expand the boundaries of pleasure and become more receptive to different sexual stimuli. At the same time, this is a rather energy-consuming and difficult practice to perform.
To enjoy oral sex to the fullest, here are a few tips that will make it easier to perform.
Oral sex lubricants are terribly underrated. In addition to the fact that they are able to mask the natural taste and body odor, which not everyone likes, they perfectly moisturize and promote better glide. After all, saliva is not enough to feel comfortable.
In addition, some oral lubricants contain mint or warming ingredients to help relax your throat.
So that you can always switch from oral sex to peniso-vaginal sex, it is best to choose water-based lubricants that do not contain sugar – such a lubricant will be compatible with condoms and will not harm the natural microflora of the vagina.
Oral sex doesn’t have to be as harsh, rough, and deep as we can almost always see it in porn. But even if you and your partner plan that he will be like this, it is best to start small: with the correct execution technique.
In order not to choke and not suffer from the gag reflex, breathe through your nose and swallow saliva when there is too much of it. And you can also control the depth of penis penetration: just grab the shaft of the penis at the base with your hand and move it to the beat of your head, as if “continuing” the movement of your mouth.Read also
If you are worried that you will not be able to cope with the active actions of your partner, ask him to hand over the reins to you: choose the speed and depth, set the pace yourself, move gradually – from the head, and then lower and lower, as far as you are most comfortable. Strictly speaking, you can even do without dipping your penis directly into your mouth if it causes discomfort.
To begin with, you can try to combine manual caresses with caresses with lips and tongue, and then move on.
Don’t get hung up on the little things
Unreasonable worries can become an obstacle to a good blowjob and pleasure. Just allow yourself to do everything the way you want, without getting hung up on what your facial expression is during oral sex, whether you look sexy enough, whether the sounds you make at the same time excite your partner.
Don’t forget about yourself
If the mouth is not your erogenous zone, then in order to enjoy the blowjob, you will have to connect another sensitive area. For example, the clitoris is the most sensitive area on a woman’s body.
This can be done in three ways:
– Move to pose 69 and exchange oral sex. The apparent difficulty of execution may be related to the difference in the height of the partners. Moreover, when you give and receive at the same time, it can be quite difficult to concentrate on one thing or at least tune in to the general rhythm.
– Start fondling yourself or ask your partner to do it. This is the easiest way to please yourself while giving it to your partner. At the same time, you can caress yourself in absolutely any position, but if you ask your partner for manual caresses, you still have to dodge.
– Connect a toy to sex: a compact vibrator for the clitoris, a vacuum stimulator, a full-fledged rabbit vibrator, a vibro bullet that you can simply place in your vagina and free your hands. Cool bonus: while you caress yourself during a blowjob, a strong neural connection is formed between blowjob and sexual arousal, and sometimes satisfaction.
But if you don’t like blowjob, you find this type of caress unpleasant and unacceptable, give it up. In the end, your own pleasure should always come first.